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pregnant and no where to go

klight started this conversation

in december i heard about aidpage.com. i was living with my brother at the time ( 19 and 18 years old), but because of winter both our hours at our jobs were cut in half. we were making it but barely. so i decided to nievely post my situation on aidpage. a few days later i was contacted by a pastor who never got back to me, and a man named Sean Yanti. he explained his backround and hard life growing up, and he said he had been through what i was going through now, but now God has blessed him and he would like to bless others. he sent me a check for $4000, but i was to take $500 for myself, and wire the rest through western union to another "very needy" person. seeing as he was not asking me to send my money  but his, i thought nothing was wrong, so i did. i cashed the check through my bank and sent the $3500 off. he then told me he was sending another check to help me, but he wanted me to take out a small amount and send the rest. i asked why he didnt send the money himself to her, but he said it was not on his level and he would if he could and he was very sorry. once again i thought ok its his money. before i got the 2nd check, my bank called me telling me it was a fake check and i would have to pay the bank the $4000 back. i told sean this still thinking he was a good man and it was a mistake; he said to cash the second check and use it for my bank. b4 i did though i called the bank the 2nd check was from, for $4000 also, and it was fake. i didnt hear from him again. i know your thinkng how niave and stupid i must be, but i am only 19 years old and didnt know. i thought if he asked me to send my money that was fraud, but it was his. because of this, i have been unable to pay any bills including rent, so i have been evicted out of my home and no place wll rent to me, my car was taken away because i could not make payments,my phone was turned off, and i have been fired from my job because i have been unable to get there. i am pregnant and have no resources, i am unable to get a loan because this really screwed up my credit. this man really messed me up. anyway his name is Sean Yanti, and he has broken english.

 

 

so now i have no home, no car, no job, nothing. i am bouncing back and forth between friends houses, but being 5 months pregnant it is not good. i cant get my own place yet because i still owe my old house money due to the fraud. i cant get public assistance until after i have the baby.  i am in major debt and i just keep falling. i am asking for some help -  i am 5 months pregnant and now no one will hire me  becuase of training and then i will have to leave after the baby is born. i can slowly repay what is given, but i just need to get back on my feet, find a place to live for me and the baby and a car.

please email klight@wisc.edu

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woman in a shoe   in reply to jdr
OK I just posted to the other Lady to see if she can fine anything for u
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woman in a shoe   in reply to missjanie
I am doing good its raining again after 4 days close to 90 here so the kids are move out did u go though David things for me
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woman in a shoe   in reply to jdr
Does she have friends that your help till she can get into housing. This afternoon I will give the information to someone else and see if she can fine anything I just don't want her going back to him I will post to this lady now and she fine anything I will have her to post it for u
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missjanie   in reply to woman in a shoe
Good morning Elsie, how are you? I'm up at vascular apt with Clifton, been a busy hectic weekend. Hope your doing well. Just wanted to check in and say hi.
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jdr   in reply to woman in a shoe
It's ok and no she has no family round here
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woman in a shoe   in reply to jdr
U welcomed wish I could have found more
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jdr   in reply to woman in a shoe
Thankyou so much.
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woman in a shoe   in reply to jdr
Also have her go sign up for welfare and wic
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woman in a shoe   in reply to jdr
OK I could only fine 2 shelters.friend the homeless shelter 5232785. Feancin 3784350. Also tell her to keep checking her number for housing and see if it has drop any. Why I say this there was a young girl on here awhile back she was number 61 within a mo it had drop to one hope this can help her don't she have any friend s that she can stay with or family tell she can get her housing before she goes back to him. I have been here and yes it is heard but now there some help out there but in the 70 s there was no help at all. I hope her the best
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woman in a shoe   in reply to jdr
OK I see it a small town
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jdr   in reply to woman in a shoe
Yes it's lenoir county
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woman in a shoe   in reply to jdr
When I type Kinston nc is it Lenoir county that what coming up
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jdr   in reply to woman in a shoe
Thank you so much
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woman in a shoe   in reply to jdr
Hi I got your message I will be looking in about 20 mins for u
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jdr   in reply to woman in a shoe
Hey I have a friend dat is about 5 months pregnant and has no place to go. She also has a 6 month old baby already. She has been in a shelter called a safe house cause her ex was beating on her. She is on da housing authority and listed as #41 on the list. She has to be out of the safehouse shelter by the june 15 and right now the only option she has left me is to move in with her ex and I know all he will do is beat on her again so I told her I'm going to see what I can find out for her for a place to stay for her and the kids and she does not have a job. Please can you help. Ps. She lives in kinston, nc. Any advice would be greatly appreciated
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woman in a shoe   in reply to JamieSue
Here is some names of places that will pay rent deposit tenant group 575 0700. new krnsington CDC 739 6910. this one here can help rent deposit furniture clothing food community engagement unit 990 spring garden 7th flood 685 3660. food st gabriels parish 532 5057. salvation army 561 0178. now i will look for free baby stuff for u
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woman in a shoe   in reply to LostMama
why are u scared of your mom? at less u got one my mom past in 2000
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LostMama   in reply to woman in a shoe
Ha ha ha Elsie...Im in my 30s and scared of my mom lol.
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woman in a shoe   in reply to JamieSue
Hi if u are 19 how can your mother tell u where to live at 19 u are your own woman. But there is places that will pay your fist mo rent and deposit. i am going to look some help up for u than I will post it to u. Right now at work so give me a little bit to get back to u. I well also look and see if I can fine any places in pa where u can get free baby stuff be back as soon as I can
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JamieSue   in reply to woman in a shoe
I go to welfare. I have foodstamp and insurance . My foodstamp goes to my aunt bc I am using her address. I never got on wic bc I have no where to get there. I live in North philadelphila P.A . People telling me go to a shelter and pregnancy group home but I don't want to at all. I hate struggle ! I just found out I am having a daughter . I am doing this all by my self and only 19 yr old. I move to Philly bc my mom made me to. I don't no nothing at Philly. Everything hard for me bc I am doing everything on my own. Two weeks I have to find somewhere to live again.
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